How to Make Friends in College
Last updated September 20, 2024
The first year of college brings a lot of change to a student’s life–new school, new campus, and maybe even a new city or state! While you have many great new experiences to look forward to during your first year of college, one of the most exciting parts is meeting new people. We share some tips for making friends in college!
Orientation
New student orientation prepares you to start your new life as a college student. While you may take care of some practical things during orientation, like receiving your student ID or registering for classes, you'll also meet other new students. The idea of meeting a lot of new people at once can sound overwhelming or intimidating, but putting yourself out there and being open to new relationships will go a long way when starting college. Everyone around you is also new and sharing similar feelings! As you begin to find your community, your school will feel more like home.
On-campus spots
Once classes begin, there are other spots around campus to make friends and build community! These include:
- Your residence hall. Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation with someone in your dorm or on your floor and ask them to grab dinner or coffee with you. They want to make new friends, too!
- The dining hall. Feeling bold? Ask to join someone’s table if they have an empty seat in the dining hall! Ask them about where they’re from, what they’re majoring in, and what their favorite things to do around campus are. Even if you don’t end up being friends with this person, you likely will have learned something new from them!
- Class. Taking a challenging class? Set up a study group with some classmates. Not only will you strengthen your knowledge of the class material together, you’ll likely make some new friends!
Clubs and student organizations
Ask your RA or someone on your floor about any student clubs or organizations that they’re familiar with, or check your school’s website to find a full list. Check the social media profiles of clubs or organizations that you’re interested in to find out where and when they meet, and attend a meeting! You’ll meet new people while bonding over shared interests.
Work
Having a part-time job in college is very common, and also a great way to get to know people. If you land an on-campus work-study job, there’s a high chance you’ll be working with other students. Strike up conversations with your new coworkers and ask to hang out or study together outside of work.
Events
No matter where you attend college, there’s always something happening around campus. Check out your school’s student life office for a list of on-campus events like socials, talks, performances, and more! Your school may even have events geared toward new students that you can attend to meet new people.
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