Students everywhere struggled with the COVID-19 health crisis. Watch these #WeBelongInCollege stories from high school students who navigated being a student during the pandemic.
Eboni’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Eboni lost her two part-time jobs when the pandemic hit, leaving her unsure of whether she would have the money necessary to attend college. Hear from Eboni about how she kept working toward her higher education goals.
Jazmyn’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Although the pandemic affected Jazmyn’s life, she found a silver lining: she discovered a talent and a passion she never knew she had.
Olivia’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Like many students, Olivia missed out on senior year rituals. She worried about her dad losing his job and how it would affect her ability to pay for college. She braced for the possibility that she wouldn’t be able to afford her dream school, but did her best to find ways to cope and keep things in perspective.
Lauren’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Watch Lauren share some words of advice for the high school graduating class of 2020.
Kirsten’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Kirsten worried for her elderly loved ones who were vulnerable to COVID and about the challenges of staying focused when learning remotely.
These #WeBelongInCollege stories are from students who struggled when applying for financial aid due to difficulties obtaining the necessary application documentation.
Enoch’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Enoch lived with his sister because his mom was homeless. Because his mom was his legal guardian, he needed her financial documents to apply for financial aid. Hear how he persevered through all of these barriers.
Julian’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Julian struggled to get the documents he needed to apply for financial aid. He was determined to persevere through his belief that he belonged in college, even though some of his family members thought otherwise.
Frank’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
When Frank’s mother was struggling with mental illness, he sought out the support he needed. When it came time to apply to college, a new challenge arose. He no longer lived in the same state as his mom, but still needed to get her financial documents because she was still his legal guardian.
Karen’s #Webelongincollege Story
Because of her immigration status, Karen didn’t qualify for federal financial aid. She worked full-time to pay for college while attending school part-time and taking night classes. When she needed documentation to qualify for in-state tuition but couldn’t get it, she started to question if she belonged in college.
Some students have difficult personal circumstances that can make applying to college much more stressful. Watch these #WeBelongInCollege stories to learn how these students coped with personal challenges while pursuing their college dreams.
Charlize’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Charlize was born with sickle cell anemia, which caused her to miss many days of school and important exams. It was tough for Charlize, but she found the motivation and ambition to keep pushing herself and strive for success, and encourages all students to do the same.
David’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
David’s family immigrated to the United States before he was born. His mom wanted him to get a good education and become successful. David didn’t take school seriously, hardly showed up, and got caught up in gang activity. On top of this, David started a new job that he didn’t enjoy, helping him come to the conclusion that he wanted to pursue a higher education and turn his life around.
Elizabeth’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Elizabeth grew up dealing with mental health problems and struggled in school, receiving her high school diploma with a 1.9 GPA. She struggled finding a college that would accept her and questioned whether college was even meant for her. Elizabeth found her motivation, found a college for her, and began pursuing her degree.
Janelle’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Janelle was thriving in high school until her father passed away, causing her mental health to decline. It was difficult, but Janelle pushed herself to persevere for her father and reach her goals.
Kirsten’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Kirsten developed some harmful habits in high school, including an eating disorder and substance abuse. She believed she wasn’t going to graduate on time. During her senior year, she began to accept that she had to pave her own path, and that the timing of her schooling didn’t measure who she is.
Embrea’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Embrea lost her drive to apply to college when she was dealing with emotional challenges at the beginning of her senior year. But when she discovered her passion for veterinary medicine while working on a school project, she realized that she belongs in college and found the motivation needed to navigate the college application process.
Jefrey’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
When Jeffrey and his family immigrated to the United States, they had to rebuild their lives from scratch. In his story he describes how at his lowest moment, everything changed.
Luis’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Luis’ parents’ divorce hit him hard, and when he had trouble passing his AP Chemistry class, he started to question if he belonged in college. When he found a therapeutic outlet, everything changed.
Balwant’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
When her mom was diagnosed with breast cancer, Balwant took on the responsibility of taking care of her younger siblings. She found it hard to focus on the college application process when all that mattered was her mom’s recovery. But her parents encouraged her to continue to pursue her college dreams.
David’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Problems at home bled into problems at school when David couldn’t get himself to go to class. When he started to fail classes, he questioned whether he belonged in college. Looking back, he is so grateful that he didn’t give up, because it turned out that going to college was exactly what he needed to do.
Nicolette’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
The college application process can create anxiety when you are the first in your family to apply and are balancing school, sports, and a job. Nicolette shares the story of how she coped.
Catherine’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Catherine was so focused on caring for her dad during her senior year that she came close to deciding not to apply to college. But she realized that the last thing he would ever want was for her to give up on her future.
Gregory’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Throughout high school, Gregory found it hard to focus as much as he wanted to on sports and academics because of family obligations, caring for his four siblings while moving around. When the college application process became one more thing to focus on, he realized that “just because the process is hard doesn’t mean that you don’t belong.”
Kylee’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
After losing someone very close to her, Kylee found herself in a dark place. She started to question if she belonged in college. In her story, she shares how she managed to persist even though there were so many moments when all she wanted to do was give up.
Jia’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
“Hi, my name is Jia and this is my we belong in college story. So, my parents opened a sushi restaurant in Maryland which is where I grew up. It’s a small family restaurant so everyone in my family had to do their job to run the business and my parents borrowed a lot of money to come to the United States, so they were constantly paying others back and in debt.
We didn’t have enough money to hire extra workers so it was mainly me and my younger brother serving in the front of the restaurant, my uncle as the sushi chef, my dad in the kitchen and my mom managing all the financial bills, food inventories, and business transactions. Life was good we were financially stable, there was always food on the table, and I was doing well academically.
But in the summer of my junior year in 2018 my parents divorced. Throughout that time, it was one of the lowest points of my life and I went to a dark place where I felt so alone and had no one to talk to who understood what I was going through. I loved both my mom and dad and the thought of my family separating was heartbreaking. They were fighting all the time, and both threatened to leave our family. They said we would have to sell the restaurant, our home, cars and both parents would go their own ways. It was an uncertain time and it was hard to focus on academics. It was like my life was crashing down around me and I had no control of my future. I lost all motivation and my dreams of finishing high school and going to college seemed distant and unattainable. I started doubting myself and questioning if I deserved to be in college. With everything that’s been happening I didn’t feel like I could make it or was good enough.
My dad ended up leaving for California and my mom took on the responsibility of running the restaurant, doing everything in the kitchen that my dad used to do on top of her other duties and raising three children by herself. There were many times where she would break down crying from all the stress and responsibilities and we held on to each other for support. She emphasized to me the value of education and wanted me to have a better future one where i would have more opportunities. She is the most resilient, hardworking and humble woman I have ever met, and she continues to inspire me to work harder to achieve my dreams. I studied hard in school, went to states for cross country my junior year and got into all the colleges I applied for. All the obstacles I have overcame showed me I deserve to be in college and that it’s not just a dream anymore because I am going to a college in the fall. I want the people listening to my story to know that your doubts and hardships are not going to hold you back. You can achieve your dreams and you belong in college. WE belong in college.”
Michelle’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
I always thought that college wasn’t going to be for me. I was so certain that since my academics in high school weren’t the best, I would fail at college. I figured, “why even try?” I was making decisions about my future out of fear, self-doubt, and insecurity. Even though I knew my failures in high school were due to my emotional state, I could not be sure that I wouldn’t face the same emotional challenges in college. I didn’t have the motivation to even try.
To give you the back story, in high school, my father was suffering from kidney failure. He was on dialysis, constantly in and out of the hospital, and doing everything he could to fight for his life. He even flat-lined a couple of times, and they were fortunately able to resuscitate him. He was my best friend, and the thought of losing him shook my world. Alongside him being sick, I was being severely bullied at school. My school and home life were not conducive to academic success. I became more concerned with surviving than getting good grades. I was in such a dark place that I felt I wouldn’t make it past the age of 18, let alone enter college and get a degree.
If it wasn’t for my mother constantly encouraging me and telling me that she knew I was capable, I would’ve just found an alternative life path. However, I applied for a community college and got accepted. My mom told me to take baby steps, to give the best I could given my emotional state. She wasn’t hard on me, she was understanding, and knew that in time I would develop confidence in my abilities.
When I initially started at the community college, I was still working through my inner demons and wasn’t performing my best. I didn’t know myself; I just knew my pain. I let my pain define me. Community college allowed me to find myself and explore what I did and didn’t like. I had a total of 5 major changes before I landed upon teaching. I found out I had a passion to help children. The moment I found my passion, my grades even started improving, I applied myself more, and my life changed.
I went from a student who had to retake basic courses to a student that got straight A’s and was constantly on the Dean’s list. For anyone who may find themselves in a situation where they feel they are incapable of succeeding at college, or that they don’t even know themselves because they have endured a life of difficult circumstances. I recommend going to community college first. It allows you the opportunity to find yourself, build yourself up, and learn all the things you probably didn’t in high school. From community college, I worked my way to the university. It felt like I had a world of opportunity at my hands!
Once I was at university, my passions only grew! I pursued my dream to work with kids, got experience in the field, maintained a high academic standing, got into 3 honor societies, and graduated Magna Cum Laude. I never in a million years thought I would get this far, especially knowing that I had no aspirations when I initially entered college.
I used to only live to SURVIVE, and college makes me feel like I’m LIVING. I’m not just existing, I’m growing, progressing, and changing. College gives me the knowledge to be able to make a difference. That is why I pursued graduate school. Even if you feel you can’t succeed, even if you feel you have the world against you, it is important to know YOU CAN DO IT. I fortuitously had my mother’s profound faith in me that pushed me to make the best decision of my life. I’m now addicted to learning and always find myself going back to college to learn more. Your story does not define you. We are all capable of success, it just takes persistence. WE BELONG IN COLLEGE!
Sean’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
“The Class of 2020 is experiencing a crisis. I get texts from friends telling me they are sick of social isolation or online classes. They complain of getting no after-prom parties or chances to walk across the stage for a diploma. My social media is plagued by threats of dropping out of college due to online classes, or captions like ‘I feel robbed of my senior year,’ or ‘this virus ruined my life.’
When I was thirteen years old, I thought my father’s death from lung cancer had ruined my life. I was sent to live with an aunt and uncle I’d only visited two to three times a year. I went to school with strangers and went to church with strangers. My father was the only family member who’d seen me walk to the bus stop each day. His passing left a smoking bullet hole in my heart. Even now, when I try to think of my future, my wound aches a little more, reminding me of its presence. I felt my father’s death was the irreversible curveball that had shattered the windows of my friendships, my connections, my education and my sense of normalcy. On the horizon, I couldn’t see the end of eighth grade without my father. I couldn’t see the point of one day walking the stage or packing for college without him. I almost didn’t see the point of attending college at all.
But I am standing here today, committed to my dream school and a career I’m eager to begin learning about. Yes, I stand here robbed of a father and robbed of the community I’d grown up with for nearly eight years of my childhood. Yes, I stand here robbed of my last two months of high school and robbed of a prom and robbed of a graduation. Yes, I stand here robbed of the traditional life that any high school senior would’ve dream of.
But I decided long ago that I wouldn’t stop short of the finish line just because the race didn’t happen the way I wanted it to. I have scaled too many walls just to slow down. I have jumped too many ditches just to collapse in the dirt. I have walked too little in this incomplete puzzle of a life to give up on my father, or the life he wanted for me–a life where I am healthy and educated.
My name is Sean Callahan and I belong in college.”
If your test scores are making you question if you belong in college, you are not alone! Watch these #WeBelongInCollege stories to hear from other students who feared that low scores might keep them from pursuing their college dreams and how they managed to persist to college.
Zaituni’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
When Zaituni came to the United States, she struggled in Advanced Placement classes and on the SAT/ACT. Because of this, she was unsure whether she would get accepted to college. Thanks to her sister’s advice, Zaituni was reassured that she was capable of making it to and through college.
Leidy’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Leidy was a stellar student throughout high school, yet struggled with the SAT. Despite being challenged by the exam, she persisted and was accepted into college.
Nicki’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Nicki struggled with the SAT. She feared that her scores would not get her to college until she found motivation to persist and push towards her dreams.
The college application process may seem daunting, but support and preparation can help. Watch these #WeBelongInCollege stories to learn how these students dealt with feeling unprepared for college and how they persisted.
Abigail’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Abigail compared herself to other students who were doing more than her, like sports, school, part-time jobs, and more. She questioned why a college board would ever pick her over any of these other students. Thanks to her mom, Abigail found confidence in herself and noted that it’s okay to struggle and show your human side.
Anaya’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Growing up, Anaya constantly compared herself to other people which led to her questioning whether she should apply to college. She felt as if she wasn’t smart or creative enough for college. One day, she came to a realization that everyone is unique and special in their own way, and you should love and respect yourself, instead of comparing yourself to them.
Anistyn’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Anistyn started to doubt if college was for her when she realized that all her friends were already applying to colleges while she had barely started. Feeling stressed and behind, Anistyn proceeded to talk to her friends and ask for help, only to find out that a lot of them were in the same situation as she was. This helped Anistyn rebuild confidence in herself and apply to multiple colleges!
Karoline’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
During her senior year of high school, Karoline was told she needed pass a standardized geometry test (a subject she had never taken) in order to graduate. When she failed the test, she started to question if she belonged in college. Listen to her story about how she persisted and made it to college!
Sebastian’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
When Sebastian compared his grades and test scores to his peers who were getting into college, he started to question whether he belonged. His family and friends believed in him, and thanks to their support, he too came to believe that he does belong in college.
Tiana’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Tiana lost confidence and came very close to giving up when she compared herself to students who were getting into competitive colleges. She decided to stop comparing herself to others. Instead, she reminded herself that she was smart, had great potential, and deserved to go to college just like anyone else.
Maria’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Despite feeling strong pressure to become the first in her family to attend college, Maria questioned whether she belonged. She wasn’t sure how she would be able to pay for college, given her immigration status. It was when she saw that she wasn’t alone, and so many other undocumented students were also enrolling, that she knew she belonged in college.
Austin’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
After comparing his SAT scores and GPA to his other classmates, Austin started to question if he belonged in college. After joining a youth development program, he had the chance to meet successful professionals. He learned they had also once questioned if they belonged, and then realized what he needed to do to succeed.
Emily’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Emily’s dream from a young age was to be a registered nurse, but it felt hard to achieve as she struggled in the foster care system. She experienced homelessness and hunger. In her story, she explains how she came to realize that it was possible and that she most definitely belonged in college.
Unfortunately, many students find themselves navigating college applications on their own. Watch these #WeBelongInCollege stories to learn how these students presisted through the college application process.
Stanley’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Stanley and his family struggled financially to afford college. Because of this, Stanley began to doubt himself. He began to seek other methods of affording college, made more connections, found scholarships, and made more progress towards college.
Teshane’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Teshane started to question whether she belonged in college when she started applying for colleges her senior year of high school. Teshane, a first-generation student, struggled filling out the FAFSA and didn’t know how she would apply and make it to college on her own. In the end, Teshane persevered thanks to her guidance counselor’s help and her passion to pursue a career as a legal defense attorney.
Alex’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
As a first-generation college student, Alex had to figure out a lot of things on her own, including how to pay for college. She made the most out of quarantine by taking advantage of the extra time to apply for as many scholarships as she can.
Jackie’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Jackie was discouraged from applying to college by her school counselor. Refusing to give up, Jackie found the support she needed and got into every school she applied to.
Camila’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Applying to college when you’re a first-generation student can be difficult. In Camila’s story, she explains how she found the support she needed.
Daniela’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Daniela, who is a first-generation college student, speaks on the adversity she faced while filling out the FAFSA, applying for scholarships, and applying to college. Listen to her story as she recounts how her support system helped her get through these hardships.
Cheryl’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Cheryl’s story sheds light on how positive college counseling can make all the difference. When Cheryl had the support of a well-trained college counselor, she was able to make her college dreams come true!
Zahra’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
What made Zahra so sure that she belonged in college? She was inspired by her mother who defied the odds by graduating college while working and raising four kids.
Meril’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
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Thalia’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
When things got tough during the college application process, it was Thalia’s siblings that kept her going. As the first in her family to apply to college, she wanted to be a role model for them and be able to help them when it’s time.
Joy’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Joy’s mom stopped going to school after the 8th grade, so Joy had to figure out how to apply to college on her own. Then came the FAFSA. While each step in the application process was overwhelming, the feeling of pride after surmounting the many hurdles she faced helped her come to believe that we all belong in college.
Alexa’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Alexa questioned whether she belonged in college after watching her sister go through the college application process. Her sister was accepted at her dream school, but then couldn’t afford to enroll there.
For some students, the hardest part of the college application process is when the decisions start to come in. In these #WeBelongInCollege stories, students share how they navigated college decisions.
Karoline’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Karoline started to question if she belonged in college when she was rejected from her dream school. Thanks to the love and support from her college counselor, she realized that when one dream ends, a new one can begin.
Eddie Joe’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
Eddie Joe was thrilled to learn that he was accepted to college. It was the reaction of his peers that he found troubling, and that made him question whether he deserved to be accepted at a competitive college.
Isabella’s #WeBelongInCollege Story
The college application process was tough for Isabella even before she started to hear back from colleges.
College presents all kinds of challenges. Watch these #WeBelongInCollege stories to learn how students found the support needed to overcome the challenges they faced.
